My boyfriend and I broke up

He'd be a jerk if he didnt love you and KEPT having sex with you.
It was honest of him to tell you his feelings for you have gone, thus sex was meaningless.
Its not his fault his feelings went.

Love is like the wind, it comes and goes and needs no explanation for its actions.
Just the way life is im afraid. Its not his fault his feelings for you have gone and it doesn't make him a jerk.

Dear Golden Lion,

There are various theories on Love.

The Love and Respect theory is that if a woman deisres more Love in her relationship, she can find ways to give more respect to her man.

If a man wishes more respect from his woman, he can find more ways to express Love to his woman.

Many people share your view that Love is an accident. I personally take a more self-actualizing approach.

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Kiss, Tell, Learn, Do better.

...if he tells her "I don't love you anymore" and that he wants to move on and they choose to still have sex, that is fine in my book. It might mean more to her, but damn, why not go for a roll? I think it will help them move on.

True his feelings changing might not have been his fault. Just wish he had told me sooner. And he could have gone about it in a better way instead of staying out and avoiding me. I don't feel like sex at all with him now. He's no longer attractive to me. He expects me to act the same way around him I did before but it's different now. He thinks we can still be comfortable around each other naked, but I'm not. We're not intimate so why act like we are? True to form, he stayed out all night again, only coming home to et ready for work. At least he's willing to pay for my bus tickets to go back to Canada. Seems he's as eager for me to leave as I am to leave. My feelings for my ex husband slowly went away so I know it can happen.

Am i seeing things a little wrong here, is it only the female that must show respect to her MAN , must attend to her MANS wishes and wants.

In this day and age a relationship should be a 50/50 split, not 100/0 or 75/25.
He has to do things for Firecracker as well, but if he does not LOVE her wheres the relationship ?

Dear Kronnie,

Where is the Relationship is a good question.

What all is Boyfirend doing for Firecracker, on a daily basis?

What all has Boyfriend been doing for Firecracker for several months?

What has Boyfriend asked Firecracker to change?

What easy things to try to change has Firecracker tried, or not tried?

Has Boyfriend given up asking Firecracker to change in some way?

How has Boyfriend expressed his frustration with Firecracker's refusal to try to make things better?

In what ways is Firecracker dependent on Boyfriend?

If Boyfriend feels Firecracker is unreasonably refusing to make reasonable accomodations, and wants to end the relationship, how would you suggest Boyfriend break up with Firecracker?

If a guy asks his lady for a reasonable accomodation, and the lady refuses to try, does that mean that the guy does not love the lady?

There are basically three choices, if a realtionship is going South. Make Changes, Be polite, but not overly concerned, or create distance to avoid animosity. What choices do you see?

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Kiss, Tell, Learn, Do better.

I hate the awkwardness between my ex and I! He spent some time here today but only because he didn't want to stay alone in the female friend's apartment while she was out. We were able to talk a little bit. He slept most of the time. I hate when he leaves though and won't stay because it makes me feel rejected. He has a place to sleep here yet he won't sleep here! It will be less confusing once I'm gone.

This might be coming from a place of bitterness in me, which I fully understand, but my advice to you is to get away from him. If he doesn't love you, and you have lingering feelings for him, you're just going to hurt whenever you're around him. At least, that's how I felt whenever I was around a girl that I used to like. Long story short, she led me along for a few years, acting like she wanted to be more than friends and that she liked me, I fell for it, felt "love" for her.....and then I saw her with her boyfriend. Of course, I felt humiliated about feeling for her the way I did, when I wasn't paying attention to the fact that she never really tried to be -with- me, and eventually (and currently) those feelings have just left me bitter towards her, and it kind of showed in following conversations I had with her (of which haven't occurred for over a year now).

That....kinda went off-track, but my point is, if you want to continue being friends or anything with him after your feelings settle, don't let yourself feel rejected or anything that might turn you against him.

Then again, if you want to hate him, go ahead and hate him. >.>

I'm going to get away from him as soon as I can. It's easy to not be around him much now. As for being friends, I don't think I could do that. We were lovers before we even tried to be in a relationship. Sorry you had to go through that and I appreciate your advice.

I'm getting so I resent my ex. Probably easier that way.

I've always found it much easier that way, yep.

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The most beautiful make-up of a woman is passion. But cosmetics are easier to buy. ~Yves Saint Laurent

The sexiest parts of my body are my brain, my heart, my spine, and my guts.

I just had a major confrontation with my ex and the female friend with whom he's been spending most of his time. I don't feel comfortable going anywhere with the both of them and have no other friends. So I'm at his place all the time. I know it will be better once I leave. We almost came to blows.

A few years ago I dated a girl I wanted for 8 years. Liked her since we were 12 and we dated when we were 20-22. Well after 2 years she told me she is too young for a relationship and wants to see what else i sout there.

If a man says something in the woods and there are no women around to hear him, is he still wrong?

"If a man says something in the woods and there are no women around to hear him, is he still wrong?" Yes, with out a doubt!