Do you ladies watch porn?

amandinefr · 08-29-07

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Originally Posted by LPjammin

...would you mind helping me understand this; Every single time the wife and I have gotten a movie, it ended up being a long, enjoyable night and sometimes the whole weekend. This would be maybe once every couple of months or so. Yet, every time I bring it up 'let's get a movie' she's derisive about it. "Yuck." "Boring." etc. like she doesn't like it, at all.

So, sure enough, next time we get a movie, within five minutes, we're naked on the bed, just watching and then she reaches over to put my hand on her pussy, sure enough, just that almost sopping wet cunt that can't get enough.

I tell her "You always say yuck, yet every time we do, you love it, we have a great time. Explain." All I get is the "I don't like it and shouldn't have to do something I don't like" thing. This kinda follows right on my post about she and I and anal sex.

I don't understand. Thanks in advance.

Ok, I think I can explain!
I'm also like this, I always laugh at my bf when he says let's watch a porno. That is because to an extent I don't really like porno movies, I feel like they're no use, and I feel kinda stupid watching one... we can have sex without them, and it's a bit strange to just say "let's watch a porno".
I dunno if i'm making sense... The idea of watching a "boring" porno movies doesn't really get me excited.
But then if my BF just decides to put a video on, the moment I watch it, I DO get excited, so I do enjoy it in the end.
So (ok women are complicated) I think your wife is kinda like me, she doesn't KNOW she likes it, she thinks she doesn't like it, maybe because ethically it's not really "right"... but when it happens, she DOES enjoy it!

I'm also the same with anal, (i havent read you post, but i take a guess it's kinda the same problem), If my BF says let's do some anal, the IDEA of it doesn't get me excited, and it's more like a "yuk" thing...
but when we actually do start foreplay and when he starts penetrating i really really enjoy it!

I don't know if it's an explanation at all.
I guess we just don't really like to talk about it, or it makes us laugh or digusted or it disturbs us, but when it comes to actually doing it, we take things more seriously and enjoy them.

Bluesy · 08-29-07

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Originally Posted by amandinefr

Ok, I think I can explain!
I'm also like this, I always laugh at my bf when he says let's watch a porno. That is because to an extent I don't really like porno movies, I feel like they're no use, and I feel kinda stupid watching one... we can have sex without them, and it's a bit strange to just say "let's watch a porno".
I dunno if i'm making sense... The idea of watching a "boring" porno movies doesn't really get me excited.
But then if my BF just decides to put a video on, the moment I watch it, I DO get excited, so I do enjoy it in the end.
So (ok women are complicated) I think your wife is kinda like me, she doesn't KNOW she likes it, she thinks she doesn't like it, maybe because ethically it's not really "right"... but when it happens, she DOES enjoy it!

I'm also the same with anal, (i havent read you post, but i take a guess it's kinda the same problem), If my BF says let's do some anal, the IDEA of it doesn't get me excited, and it's more like a "yuk" thing...
but when we actually do start foreplay and when he starts penetrating i really really enjoy it!

I don't know if it's an explanation at all.
I guess we just don't really like to talk about it, or it makes us laugh or digusted or it disturbs us, but when it comes to actually doing it, we take things more seriously and enjoy them.

Well...we aren't all like that. There was a time when I couldn't admit that I enjoyed porn because we're conditioned to think of it as a "guy thing", and "good girls" aren't suppposed to indulge in wildly unconventional stuff like that

It took me a while to fully accept the very natural inclination all of us, men and women, have for erotic imagery.

I think the majority of professional porn (movies) is tacky and overdone, however. Give me the amateur stuff, or at least some good acting and a plot!

hrd2fnd2 · 09-23-07

my wife is all about girl on girl, it makes her soooo wet and wild. great way to start the nights off

angelbaby · 09-25-07

I actually like all kinds of porn,it puts me in a mood where my honey can get his way about anything

especially hardcore

buffstuff · 09-26-07

I think most women like it, or at least like how it makes them feel, even if they won't admit it.

Do you ladies watch porn?

Originally Posted by LPjammin ...would you mind helping me understand this; Every single time the wife and I have gotten a movie, it ended up being a long, enjoyable night and sometimes the whole weekend.