Stop and Go technique - useful or crap?

my girl does it to me when rubbing or giving oral.... even tho it drives me crazy (which she loves) I do like it alot..... I've tried it with her, but it dosn't work, when she is close if I stop or slow down, the orgasm is almost lost and it takes (alot) of time to get it back.... I do tease tho by rubbing the clit really lightly, makes her want it really bad, but I don't stop entirely.

I'm not a big fan of stop and go, interrupts the natural flow of sex. My 2 cents.

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I think it helps, but ive decided it depends alot on the woman wants more.

I used to stop and go during sex, when I brought it up to my girlfriend after she told me it would make her much happier if I just came when it felt like I was gonna cum.

It disrupts the flow of passionate sex sometimes. Id say practice more on not cumming as quick, its easier for both.

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There's an idea! Stop/go can be done during a BJ/HJ (As long as it's not too torturous!)

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I have a hard time believing you would truly upset a woman this way...besides, after a few times of stopping you almost desensitize yourself a bit and don't have to stop as much. My biggest difficulty is with getting so amped up at the beginning that if I go full throttle I often cum too early. I stop and start a few times...making the 'breaks' an opportunity to use my hands and kiss the neck and breasts...sensual stuff...then when we're both really into it I can relax again and last quite a bit longer.

You CAN make it fun, ya know...sex ain't all just about fucking.

Good point, slowing down for a moment can prolong the act for a long time and after doing it a few times and you seem to reach the point where you can last forever. At this point, when your partner gets hot and is on the brink of coming, you seem invicible. You can do what you have to do no matter how much her arousal affects you.

The other point is also worthwhile: using this early slowing-down time to kiss and nuzzle your partners neck. This is all good, especially when you are relaxed and comfortable that intercourse is going to last for a lot longer still.

Well, not having sex.... thats all we have done it with

But... yes, and she has done it for quite a while a few times too.... she really enjoys seeing me go flat out crazy from being right on the edge then just letting it die down while I have no control over it... and I can't help but say that the thought, and feeling of it all, and things she says to me in the process just make me want her to do it... sometimes I request it too I tell her I know it'll drive me wild but to do it anyway...... it makes for some really big fireworks at the end too!

Actually whats worse then even stop and go is to tease by just rubbing super light, its crazy because its hard enough to feel it and make me want to finish, but its not hard enough to do the job... like I said before, stop and go dosn't work at all for her, but the teasing sure does! and she gets her share of that too