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Old 04-30-05   #10 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by BA95TA
Newbie here, and am confused with my wife . We've had anal sex like once, or twice before when we were dating like 6 years ago, but that was it, never again. I know I wasnt as easy on the ass the first time we did it, because that was my first time having anal sex and I was a little excited I guess, and she always say's Im very big, so do you think I just hurt her to much? I've asked her about having anal since then, but you'd think I just asked her if I could sleep with another woman with the reaction I got. So Im just totally confused and having been with the same partner for over 6 years now, I feel we need to experiment in the bed and thats just something Id like to experience again. What do I do?
Logger is absolutely correct in saying it could cause a urinary tract infection. My boyfriend and I did have anal sex on occasion and if she has any fecies at the time then it gets in u. It happened with us and its very painful for the guy. He said it felt like sharp needles everytime he had to pee, which was quite often. It takes awhile to go away also. I like anal sex and we still do it sometimes but we now use a condom w/ lubricant. He talked me into it once and it wasnt that bad because he got me really wet first and we used that as lubricant. Good luck.
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