I have only recently, as in the past year and a half, really come out of my sexual shell and started masturbating while using toys in front of my husband.
I guess I never did it before because I felt it would be an insult to him, make him think he didn't have the skills to get me off. It was only about 3 years ago that I timidly asked him if he minded if I touched myself when he was sucking and pinching my breasts.
Anyways, now I have no problem touching myself, or even using a dildo or Wand when he is in bed with me. He, on the other hand, won't masturbate in front of me. I asked him why he never will and he said it was because he did it once in front of his ex wife and she told him it was disgusting. (He found out later that she was a lesbian, go figure.) I told him I would be very turned on to see him do it, but he hasn't done it yet. |