Originally Posted by Darkesheart
That's great But ask her about her fantasies too. You might be surprised to find out what she fantasizes about.
I brought that up last night and she only mentioned one,
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That's great But ask her about her fantasies too. You might be surprised to find out what she fantasizes about.
I brought that up last night and she only mentioned one, but I'm definitely gonna go with it because I'm glad she was open about it. She wants to get one of those swing things that she can lay in while we fuck.
It sounds like you are well on your way. It sounds like your fears were unfounded. I joke to my wife about getting one of those swings as I think it would be a lot of fun but with four kids it's not really practible for us to get one. Kind of hard explaining that one to the kids.
I asked her if she wanted to go to the sex shop to get a costume, and she agreed. As suggested, I stopped by the DVDs and started looking. To my surprise, she started looking too, and picked one that she thought looked good!
I agree with what everyone has said. Take ur time, ease her into it little by little. She sounds like she's pretty cool with stuff. I'm sure she would go for it. You never know she might be dreaming about the same thing!!
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I agree that you need to sit her down and tell her that there are some things you fantasize about and hope she would be open in helping you along with it, aslong as your open with her on what you like to do and are open with what she would want in return then i dont see it working any way but in your favor.
But ask her about her fantasies too. You might be surprised to find out what she fantasizes about. 
