I'm in the same boat there pal, My wife & I had anal sex 2 times. Here's the rub(?) The first time she apparently got off on it, all the moaning and such, the next time> months later she said it hurt and gave her the runs. SO no mo butt sex,period....she says how'd you like a baseball bat in your ass?... So I have let the old anal boat leave without me.I suppose since marriage is a sacred thing it's not too much of a sacrifice...but that ass sure felt nice way back when....