Hi I am new to this board and realize this is an old post.But I would like to put my two cents in.My wife has suffered from depression for about 8 years and has been on just about all the anti-depressant drugs.Zoloft,Paxil,Welbutrin,Efixir,and Prozac.They ALL killed her libido.After complaining to many Doctors she is now on Lexapro.This drug has been touted to have the least amount of side effects compared to the others and so far it does.She has been on it for about a year now and it has seemed to help.She also is getting a little testosterone in with her hormone pill (she had a hysterectomy).But her libido has picked up whether its the lexapro or the testosterone or the combination I dont know but somethings working.
Also ask your Doctor if you can take Viagra,Cialis,or Levitra.When I want to get really super hard I just pop when of those little guys.It works great even if you have been drinking.I know that most of the time if I had been drinking I have a hard time keeping it really hard

But the Viagra will work right through the alcohol.I think you will love it and so will your significant other.I know my wife does

I would be interested to hear how it works for you if you decide to give it a try.