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Originally Posted by mysticgenie Definitely find out if she can masturbate to orgasm. Don't be upset if she doesn't with you, just be supportive. Pressure and stress to orgasm can also be putting a damper on her enthusiasim. I know that I have trouble coming to the breaking point and never actually coming, but I kinda enjoy the building up to more than anything. Patience and a long quiet evening with lots, and I do mean lots, of foreplay might be the answer. Try getting her really stirred up before you even touch her clit. |
exactly, some women are hung up on the fact that they can't orgasm so much that they pretty much give up. My gf was like this when it comes to multiply orgasms. After the first she was like OK thats it no need trying because it won't happen. one day I pushed her back onto the couch and I was like "I am not in this to just give you an orgasm, just sit there and enjoy it." she enjoyed it alright and you should have seen the look on her face when she had her second orgasm
Oh, and some anti depressants hinder a womans ability to have an orgasm. I knew a girl that was an orgasm junky, but when she took her anti depressants forgetaboutit.