Newbie here, and am confused with my wife . We've had anal sex like once, or twice before when we were dating like 6 years ago, but that was it, never again. I know I wasnt as easy on the ass the first time we did it, because that was my first time having anal sex and I was a little excited I guess, and she always say's Im very big, so do you think I just hurt her to much? I've asked her about having anal since then, but you'd think I just asked her if I could sleep with another woman with the reaction I got. So Im just totally confused and having been with the same partner for over 6 years now, I feel we need to experiment in the bed and thats just something Id like to experience again. What do I do?