Kiss???

wow, simply wow. you plan on doing it again?

i dont mean to sound cynical... but if it was such a big deal and so new to her also...why would she have a strapon?

Good question, come to think it she seemed pretty knowledgable about touching me. I mean her movements were almost mythodical and I noticed I was kinda sloppy. Gonna ask next time I see her.

damn sherlock, good point....

Confucius says, "man with hole in pocket feel cocky all day".

I asked her over the weekend and she said she meet someone at the PFLAG meeting and has been going out with her ever since. The strapon was the other girls and I feel really used and uncomfortable now. When she told me about it I didn't really say anything and just left after a few min. I really dont know what to do now.

holy crap! thats a hot story

Well I think its done. I went to talk to her again and the women she meet was there. We talked about it and I felt uncomfortable with the other girl there but she treated me like I was a lesbian and treated me as if I was stupid for wanting to stay with adam. I dont understand why that girl was so mean but I just wanted to work things out. After a while I figured out this girl was warping my friend and I left again, I feel theres nothing I can do for her now so if she wants to be stupid and close minded she can be and I'll be happy.

Dear Maggie,

I see that you did a number of things the right way, the best you knew at the time, and with a big heart. So I hope you feel OK about YOU. You were up front with your BF. The lady who seemed to be struggling with her tendencies, apparently was not really struggling as much she described, because she apparently left out mentioning other relations with other women in the past.

Warping is part of the domination aspects of Love. If someone asks you for help with the warping they are experiencing form a Lover, then it is generous to help. If someone is not asking for help, then it is difficult to help someone develop the shining-on techniques, that are effective with excessive warping from a Lover. Basically, shining-on is just relating to the good parts of a person's message and leaving the overbearing parts aside.

Your description of your sexual encounter wtih the lady was highly errotic for me. Thank you.

Sometimes I feel that my wife enjoys kissing with the lips of her vagina. When I positon my rod alongside her vagina, and rub the shaft of my rod along her vagina lips, I imagine my wife is intentionally kissing the side of my rod with the lips of her vagina. Seems similar to one of your positions, where you were kissing each other's vagina lips.

You might want to give extra attention to BF, to show your appreciation for his trust in you. You might want to talk out that this was just one unusual situation, and whether you are expecting this is one time, or occasional.

I sometimes wish that I had less feelings of jealousy, so that I could feel comfortable sharing my wife with other men or women. Sharing could be an extension of a gift. I have not found the level of trust in my wife to extend her to other men or women. I don't overly check up on my wife, and I feel she cheats on me sometimes. I just try to voice my ethics of being fatihful, with the hope that my wife will keep her cheating to a minimum. I avoid cheating so that I can have the ethical platform from which to ask for fidelity. One married man told me not to worry about my wife cheating on me, because her own image of a successful married woman would prevent her from cheating too much. I probably worry more than I need to, but I can only change so much.

Thanks for sharing

Blessings

Logger you often share alot about your personal life and I thank you. I'm also glad you guys found the story erotic but it was a one time thing. I did do something special with bf, read about it in the fetish section. Anyway I do feel good about myself I'm just mad she didn't tell me what she was doing with the other women. Apparently shes come out to her parents whom I've talked to some, leaving about our trist, they seem open but feel somewhat responsible and I've helped her mother for the most part. Anyway I think its something thats happened and is over, I hope.

Maggie,

I really enjoyed this thread and your run-in with this situation.
Anyway, I thought I would voice my respect to you on how you help out your friend. It sucks how it ended, but i hope that your relationship ok still after the fact. either way, I think that was really cool.

I have been in that situation for a while about being confused about my sexuality and being the the mind set that your friend was/is. I eventually grew out of it.

i send lots of happiness your way and to your relationship with your BF.

You can't just go groping away, You gotta preheat the oven before you stick in the turkey!

Excuse me, but, could you be a little more specific?

Thank you, at least in terms of bf and myself. My friends mind set got her in alot of trouble. That women and her were "playing" at a public park and were arrested when some kid's parent found the two of them in one of the forts.

your welcome magg.

You can't just go groping away, You gotta preheat the oven before you stick in the turkey!

Excuse me, but, could you be a little more specific?