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Originally Posted by ckjacobus  my wife wants to stick her finger up there because she has heard that that is where our sweet spot is, I am reluctant to do it because I think it might hurt. Any ideas? |
Unless she's got long fingernails it won't hurt if you take your time, force yourself to relax, and use plenty of lube. If she's got long fingernails you might have her wear latex gloves.
An ex of mine used to like doing that to me. She had long nails (no gloves) and wanted to do the in-out thing, and I never liked that, but a gentle prostate massage can be kind of nice. In fact, if she does it at the point of orgasm it can be mind blowing.
Give it a try or two. If you're really concerned about it, maybe you should first try it on your own with a small dildo until you learn to relax your sphincter. Once you get past that, it's no problem at all. Still, you might ask her to just go a little at a time. There are a lot of nerve endings at the opening of the anus, so just a touch at the outside can feel pretty nice and might leave you wanting more.
