Anal play for guys

This is actually the reason why I looked for a site like this. I love anal stimulation, but up until now, I've only been able to do it to myself. I've used quite an array of things to achieve this stimulation, but I would honestly love to have my wife use a strap on. The problem is, there is no way she's going to go for that. What's the solution to that?

Let's say hypothetically that the only answer is to search outside of my marriage, how in the world do you even bring that up in conversation? I've really never been frustrated sexually in my life, but as time goes on with no satisfaction to be seen, what do I do?

I don't think that it would be wise to try and search for that kind of stimulation outside of your marriage. Instead, you should enter into a series of serious and open discussions with you wife to try and work something out. Have you asked her how she feels, or ever had a long talk about anal play? Does she know that it's something that you want/need in your sexual life and that it isn't just some asinine typical guy fantasy brought on by all the cumming women in porn films? As with any new thing, just go slow and easy and offer lots of support for her and at the very least you'll come to a deeper understanding of one another.

My girl wasn't (seemingly) very perceptive to the idea either, but then one day I just started up a conversation about it (straight to the point) and she was actually quite ok with the thought.

My wife had a nice eight inch dido in the closet, one afternoon after some hot online chatting, I took it out and lubed it up. I laid on the bed and massaged the entrance with my greasy fingers, I pushed two fingers in and it felt so good! I took the dildo which had a vibration to it. ( I turned it on of course). I slowly pushed it in, yes it hurt a little but I didnt give up, I found it very erotic and so hot! I didnt get too far the first night, but every night I tried a little more and soon I could sit on it and wiggle, I could stand up and sit back down on it and found that going at a steady pace that it felt so hot! When I came I shot my load all over the place, it was so hot. I suggested it to her, but she says no way.. Oh well, Im not giving that dildo up. Guys you dont know what your missing!!!!!

A few years ago while giving me a blow job my wife slid a finger up my bum! It was such an intense sensation that I thrusted down to get the rest of it as I came.

After that night we've experimented quite a bit with anal play.

Our newest was just the other night, and probably the best yet. We used a double headed dildo, we both got on all fours with our asses touching the other and inserted one end up my ass & the other in her pussy. Just a simple rocking motion was perfect for both of us as it thrusted in and out of both of us.

Another great position was to have her sit down with the dildo in her pussy, and bend the other end up between her legs, I then was able to stradle her and fuck the dildo while she gave me a handjob.

By the sounds she was making I could tell that she was hot and had a great time as did I. I'm lucky enough to have a wife with an open mind when it comes to bedroom play....

impossible you can feel your G-spot during anal sex

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Anal stimulation is the best. I've been doing it since I was 13 or 14. Orgasms during anal stimulation are 10x more intense. Fingers, dildos, butt plugs, vibrators - I've used them all. Sometimes I'm content to just have anal play and intense non-ejaculatory orgasms, rather than masturbating to full orgasm. Nothing like it.

Never have done anything like it with my wife though. I'm lucky to get laid every couple months whether I need it or not. Big disconnect here, and I don't know how or if it will ever get resolved.

I'd like to try it but my girlfriend doesn't like to talk about the backdoor. I've self stimulated a couple of times while masterbating and enjoyed it.

well at least you are honest

yea if i was really turned on i think having a girl do me in the ass with a strap on might be pretty nice.

well,I love anal sex,it's the best I think.And I have went as far as to use one of my vibrators on my honey,he liked it.i thought it was weird when i first heard it,but not now,it's hot

No sense being a prude,have fun while you can.......

unfortunatly life for me does not involve anal play from my gf! this kinda sucks! but hay im happy fucking her!

From fingering to fisting is awesome. Strap-ons are the best in my opinion though. A cyberskin dildo from your girlie is amazing. We also used a double dildo in each of our asses while we were on all fours. I also like to have a inflateable/vibrating (or ejaculating) plug in while having sex or giving/getting head.

finger, understandable. strap-on is a bit of a stretch.