Thanks for the advise guys.
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Originally Posted by NaughtyKnickers  Be certain you are touching her all over, adoring and worshipping her body with your hands and lips, making her feel sexy and desirable and drawing her fully into the sensuality of the moment. Her limited response could be due to lack of preparation if you aren't taking the time to get her fully aroused and excited before you have intercourse. 
If you're doing all of these things to love her body and bring her to the right state of excitement before you have intercourse and yet she isn't responsive, you might want to find a way to tactfully address her lack of participation.
After all, she is just as responsible for her orgasm as you are!  |
I am doing all of those things.
Im not rushing into inercourse.
I spend at least 30 mins doing the above, getting her hot and ready.
But like i said, that just involves her laying there while i do all the hard work. She's a selfish lover what more can i say ?
She told me i give her the best sex she's ever had, so i guess in turn, she thinks the same.
Which in a way is true because she's my 1st sexual partner BUT im finding it boring her just laying there then opening her legs when the time comes.
Put it this way, most times i feel like im shagging a sex doll, she's lacking that much in participation.
On the vibrator issue, she said "its not better, its different. Nothing can beat skin on skin" etc... Then she said "besides, its not like its something i cant live without."
But then im gonna feel like an asshole for not allowing her to have a toy she wants.
Back to Naughtyknickers.
Why do guys have to do all the worshipping ? Its nice for guys to feel the same in return.
I know the female form is beautiful in most respects, but so is mine. Im a gymnast & a fitness instructor so i have a body which puts most main stream male models to shame.
I wanna feel loved and appreciated during love making, and right now thats not what i feel.